Originally Posted by yexie
(Post 6865602)
there is a few things you can do.
fix your sleeping rhythm, so you will see some light again, it's already dark enough in the winter and light simply helps feeling a little brighter and such and right now i think you go to sleep in the mornings and wake up in the afternoon, right?
then go outside, meet some rl friends, go shopping or whatever, do something good for yourself. have a girls day with your friends, watch some dvds with them and eat icecream :p and make yourself realize that there is people out there that can actually give you more than ppl over the internet... a hug in real life just beats e-hugs any day. always remember, e-hugs are awesome, but they should just be a plus, and not the only ones you're getting.
you're life isn't over and you still have a heart and it's not broken either, maybe it has a little crack in it, but nothing that will last forever.
if you really want to feel better, you can. stop feeling bad for yourself, he's the one missing out, not you.
also, i think its really frustrating for your e-friends to constantly trying to cheer you up with no success, things like that can get really frustrating, be careful not to drive those away that really try to be there for you atm.
last but not least, try and remember that there is people out there with much bigger drama in their life... women that were left by their husbands after 10 years of marriage and 3 kids for example. you're young, you still have all the time in the world to find happiness.
now seriously... cheer up, life isn't over. <3
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